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With over 219,000 streams and nearly 200 episodes, The Penis Project Podcast—hosted by Australian Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett —offers groundbreaking conversations about men’s sexual health. Launched in 2020 by Melissa and physiotherapist Jo Milios, the podcast combines expert knowledge, scientific insights, and interviews with her patients and their partners to address sensitive topics men often struggle to discuss, including erectile dysfunction, prostate and bladder cancer recovery, Peyronie’s disease, premature ejaculation and intimacy in relationships. Melissa, who refers to herself as the ”Unexpected Sexologist,” brings decades of clinical experience and compassion to every episode, highlighting that sexual wellbeing involves both physical and emotional health. Join this global community in breaking down stigma, finding support, and accessing practical solutions to common yet overlooked men’s health issues. Available on all major podcast platforms, with new episodes every fortnight—start listening today.
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Wednesday Nov 24, 2021
62. “Pelvic Pain Pierre”: Persistent Pain in the Private Parts
Wednesday Nov 24, 2021
Wednesday Nov 24, 2021
For today's episode, we talk with Pelvic Pain Pierre.
Pierre's story starts when he was 18 years old and he noticed a decrease in his urine flow.
Two years later he developed groin pain. This was the beginning of Pierre taking tons of different medications as health professionals struggled to find a diagnosis.
The pain became more consistent and affected Pierre's life...he noticed the pain would change depending on his emotional state and with activity. Thanks to big flat screen TV's, Pierre was still able to enjoy movies - at home! Because sitting for a long time in a cinema would be uncomfortable and can cause flare ups for Pierre.
Pierre is now 32 years old, married, and still experiences pain. But he's living his life and is NOW getting the help he needs, and can sit longer!
To know more about Pierre's story, his journey, what his diagnosis really is, and get an anatomy lesson thrown in click the PLAY button below.
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Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process

Wednesday Nov 17, 2021
Wednesday Nov 17, 2021
Welcome to episode 61 of the Penis Project podcast!
For today's episode, we take another trip down memory lane with Jo interviewing Patrick Lumbroso. As always, his frank and honest approach to a difficult subject are refreshing. If you're someone who has doubts about penile injections - this is really the perfect episode for you as Patrick discusses this in full detail.
He also talks about rehabilitation, Peyronies, pumps, nerve-sparring vs non-nerve-sparring surgery, the importance of having 2nd opinion after diagnosis, weight, pelvic floor exercises, vibrations, frequency of erections, and that not all porn is bad. He also gives his top relationship tip, that is: to treat your partner like an expensive bottle of wine - savor them.
Have a listen through the PLAY button below.
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Music
David Mercy
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Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process

Friday Nov 12, 2021
60. YOMO- YOGA 4 MOVEMBER!
Friday Nov 12, 2021
Friday Nov 12, 2021
GOT a Man in your Life?
Join us on November 21st from 9am at Leederville Oval, hosted by the Subiaco Football Club for - YOMO – Yoga for Men’s Health - led by Physiotherapists Dr Jo Milios and, Kylie ‘KP’’Pearsall. Bring a mat and a mate!
Please register here: https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/yomo-yoga-4-movember-move-for-mens-health-tickets-170944117457
The event will include keynote speakers:
- Dr Tom Hill (WACA)
- Craig Aird & Darren Peterson
- Also includes:
- Raffle prizes from lululemon
- A sausage sizzle
- Coffee carts
- Live music, acknowledgement of country, groovy tunes & smooth moves with DJ
Free Men’s Health checks from Regional Men’s Health with a PIT-STOP check on the oval will be a highlight.
Movember raises awareness of a range of men’s health issues, while there will be opportunities to donate on the day, this is a FREE event and we’d love to see you there, bring a mat and a mate (or your family – all are welcome), to support men’s health in our community
You can register and see more details here:
https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/yomo-yoga-4-movember-move-for-mens-health-tickets-170944117457
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Wednesday Nov 10, 2021
59. Debunking Penis Size and Function with “Melissa and Dr Jo”
Wednesday Nov 10, 2021
Wednesday Nov 10, 2021
The Penis Project podcast this week focuses on the question: what is normal for a male penis?
In recent months, both Jo and Melissa have had numerous patients attend their clinics, who have been very distressed by the size and appearance of their penis. In some instances, these men have had years of psychological distress over the false belief that their penis has been much smaller than average. In some cases, this has also prevented men from having relationships and even fathering children. The dire impact of this has been heartbreaking to observe so... breaking down stigmas and stereotypes is the aim of this episode.
Melissa and Dr Jo will have a frank discussion around all the common myths and misconceptions around what is normal in the male genitalia. This includes discussions around accurate measurement of penis length, function and size according to real data and scientific evidence. Conditions such as Erectile dysfunction, micro-penis, Koro , fatal retraction and buried penis are introduced as well as the impact of pornography on self-esteem.
The goal of today's episode (and of The Penis Project podcast ever since) is to reassure guys that every penis is unique and that size doesn’t necessarily matter!!!
BOOKS:
- Male Pelvic Fitness by Dr. Andrew Siegel
- The Penis Book Dr Aaron Spitz
Google Search - Penis Size:
Click on the button below to tune in for this important conversation - debunking the myth of the “perfect” penis.
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http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
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TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
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Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process

Wednesday Nov 03, 2021
58. Dr “Ryan Stafford”- Pioneer in Men’s Health Research of Pelvic floor Muscle Function
Wednesday Nov 03, 2021
Wednesday Nov 03, 2021
Dr Ryan Stafford (PhD) , Adjunct Research Fellow at University of Western Australia, University of Queensland
- Doctor of Philosophy, The University of Queensland
- Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology, University of Saskatchewa, Canada
Dr Ryan Stafford is passionate research scientist, with a background in Exercise Physiology and collaborates with global leading researchers in men’s health. Specifically, Ryan pioneered real-time ultrasound (RTUS) imaging in the assessment of male pelvic floor function in men undergoing surgery for prostate cancer, and hence changed the way the physiotherapists teach patients how to perform PFM training correctly to minimise urinary incontinence.
Today, Ryan continues to lead research at the University of Queensland (UQ) and has recently joined forces with Dr Jo (Milios) at The University of Western Australia (UWA) investigating male patients undergoing radiation therapies for prostate cancer and also at male pelvic pain patients. A new focus is on erectile dysfunction and this includes males with any form of PFM dysfunction with doppler studies of penile blood flow being examined. Also sometimes these muscles can be tight, known as ‘hypertonicity’’ and other times they can be weak, known as ‘hypotonicity’’. So for some men strength training is not the best program , but relaxation or PFM ‘down-training’’ is the key.
Please join Dr Jo as she brings up the great, the humble Dr Ryan Stafford. From Canada to you!
Ps. In recent COVID times, research grants are tougher to succeed, with less $$$ available in the total health purse, so currently Dr JO & Ryan are doing this research in a voluntary fashion. Although he wouldn’t ask for it, philanthropic donations to Ryan can always be made by contacting him directly at r.stafford@uq.edu.au... PROST!
Grants
(2018–2021) NHMRC Project Grant (ongoing )
(2016–2020) Physiotherapy Research Fellowships (completed)
Some helpful resource about Dr. Ryan Stafford:
https://shrs.uq.edu.au/profile/165/ryan-stafford
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Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process

Thursday Oct 28, 2021
Thursday Oct 28, 2021
Dr Eve Tiong believes in going above and beyond for her patients. Through both personal experience and her work in oncology, she is passionate about delivering exceptional holistic care to patients throughout treatment and beyond.
Dr Eve Tiong is an experienced radiation oncologist at Icon Cancer Centre Midland and Icon Cancer Centre Rockingham. She completed her Bachelor of Medicine, Bachelor of Surgery (MBBS) at the University of New South Wales before establishing her radiation oncology career in Singapore at the National Cancer Centre and National University Hospital in 2009.
Returning to Australia, Dr Tiong continued her specialist radiation oncology training at Sydney’s Liverpool Hospital and The Canberra Hospital. She was awarded fellowship to the Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Radiologists (FRANZCR) in 2015. Dr Tiong undertook her radiation oncology fellowship (genitourinary and gastrointestinal malignancies, lymphoma and sarcoma) at the Princess Margaret Hospital in Toronto, Canada. She has published on review articles for sarcoma and prostate cancer, and on e-health strategies for breast cancer survivors.
Dr Tiong maintains an active interest in cancer education and regularly provides community and GP information sessions about lung cancer (in Chinese), prostate cancer and breast cancer. She is experienced in utilising advanced techniques such as stereotactic radiation therapy, MRI-simulation and image guided radiotherapy. Dr Tiong developed the stereotactic body radiation therapy technique to treat prostate and lung cancers at Icon Rockingham and Icon Midland.
Dr Tiong is also proficient in English and can converse in Mandarin and Malay. She looks forward to working with patients in their language. Her clinical experience covers a broad range of solid tumour malignancies, with special clinical interest in prostate cancer, bladder cancer, breast cancer, gastrointestinal cancer, lung cancer, lymphoma and palliative care.
We are very excited to hear what she has to say and hope you enjoy it.
https://iconcancercentre.com.au/doctor/eve-tiong/
https://www.exercisemedicine.org.au/vario-health-clinic
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41443-020-00386-4?proof=t
https://systematicreviewsjournal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13643-020-01473-9
https://cpb-us-w2.wpmucdn.com/sites.wustl.edu/dist/2/1332/files/2014/03/EPIC-QOL-final-kaw-7-11.pdf
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Music
David Mercy
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Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process

Wednesday Oct 20, 2021
56. Meet‘’Pirate’’ – Bowel Cancer at 49 and all things P’s and ostomies!
Wednesday Oct 20, 2021
Wednesday Oct 20, 2021
Today, we will have a talk with Pirate.
Pirate was diagnosed with Bowel Cancer at the age of 49, a year after he first felt symptoms. If you're asking what bowel cancer has to do with your penis, then this is the perfect episode for you.
Pirate will share us his story, how he overcame being brushed over, his third 'leg', and how he is living his life at 62!
Awesome golden nuggets for today's episode so don't miss this one. ;)
Just click the PLAY button below.
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Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Wednesday Oct 13, 2021
Wednesday Oct 13, 2021
SEX after Prostate Cancer is CHALLENGING!
In this episode, we reacquaint you with Men’s Health Psychologist Patrick Lumbroso (RIP) who we first introduced in Episode 4, in our first ‘’pop up’’ edition. and then again in Episode 50. Today’s post-humous chat focuses on how men feel when it comes to all things penile rehabilitation and when things don’t work when trying to get it up! From injections to foreplay and penile implant surgery- Patrick holds NOTHING back!! Patrick was a man on a mission to educate the world and his phrase Á MAN WITH A PLAN IS UNSTOPPABLE” also applies to himself. Please remember that the information provided needs contexct – it was recorded in April 2017 and so some things have changed including outcomes for post-surgical erectile dysfunction. (Listen to Urologist Dr David Dangerfield, Episode 46 for restoring sexual function with Nerve Grafting)!
Patrick, who founded ‘’ManFocus Clinic’’ in Sydney Australia was passionate about providing quality rehabilitation and counseling service for men and their partners, especially those undergoing treatment for prostate cancer. Knowing the potential side effects of surgery – including erectile and urinary dysfunction - could greatly impact a man’s self-esteem, Patrick was earnest in his goals to address the big gaps seen in male mental health. Patrick’s primary focus was in education and support for men experiencing any form of sexual dysfunction, and although he did not complete his PHD due to his premature passing, his work is founding and explores new frontiers in men’s health.
In 2017 Dr Jo interviewed Patrick over 3 hours and episode 55 is the secind of 3 episodes bringing Patrick’s experience and desire to assist others to be better prepared and more proactive in their recovery. Knowing his death from a brain tumour was imminent, Patrick did not hold back. Brace yourself for this raw account…..
Patrick’s wife Donna and children, Joel and Rebecca have agreed to share this body of work, that remains as relevant today as when it was recorded. We thank them for their generosity.
Furthermore,
Links to Patrick Lumbroso’s body of work:
Linked-In: Patrick Lumbroso- Sexual Rehabilitation Therapist
- Paper – see email attachment
- You Tube: ''Sex After Prostate Cancer ‘with Patrick Lumbroso https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCq-PemuG0qmMZ0E0IeageWA (14 videos Patrick felt were essential knowledge for men with Prostate Cancer)
- E-Book - Sex, Life & Intimacy after Prostate Cancer
Links relevant to International Prostate Cancer Awareness Month info include:
- www.pcfa.org.au
- https://pcfa.org.au/get-involved/events/find-an-event/
- 3https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/presidential-actions/2021/08/31/a-proclamation-on-national-prostate-cancer-awareness-month-2021/
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Wednesday Oct 06, 2021
54. “Paul the Poet”: Clarity in the chaos of Cancer!
Wednesday Oct 06, 2021
Wednesday Oct 06, 2021
For today's episode, we talk with Paul.
We will start the episode from a poem written by Paul... and then the elaboration of how this poem came to be.
From losing his father, to knowing he has cancer, Paul was not able to have time to really process everything happening around him - until he needed anxiety meds. And eventually, started to think of taking his own life.
And then... healing began.
To join us and Paul through this process, just click the PLAY button below.
https://rshealth.com.au/tpp-54-paul-the-poet-clarity-in-the-chaos/
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Linkedin:
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Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
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https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi

Wednesday Sep 29, 2021
53. ‘’Rod Popcorn’’ When you’re a grower, not a shower (and penile injections)!!
Wednesday Sep 29, 2021
Wednesday Sep 29, 2021
For today’s episode, we talk to Rod. To know why we call him Rod Popcorn, just hit the play button below. 😉
Rod will share with us his story about ‘staph’ and why he had to stay in the hospital for more than 4 weeks – which happened after his surgery. He will also provide an insight on how he is doing with penile injections, his continence, the importance of pelvic floor exercises, and a lot more interesting stories from a man who is a grower and not a shower!
We also hope that Rod’s story will help you understand the importance of not pushing yourself too much, after surgery.
Enjoy listening!
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https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
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TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
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Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi