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With over 219,000 streams and nearly 200 episodes, The Penis Project Podcast—hosted by Australian Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett —offers groundbreaking conversations about men’s sexual health. Launched in 2020 by Melissa and physiotherapist Jo Milios, the podcast combines expert knowledge, scientific insights, and interviews with her patients and their partners to address sensitive topics men often struggle to discuss, including erectile dysfunction, prostate and bladder cancer recovery, Peyronie’s disease, premature ejaculation and intimacy in relationships. Melissa, who refers to herself as the ”Unexpected Sexologist,” brings decades of clinical experience and compassion to every episode, highlighting that sexual wellbeing involves both physical and emotional health. Join this global community in breaking down stigma, finding support, and accessing practical solutions to common yet overlooked men’s health issues. Available on all major podcast platforms, with new episodes every fortnight—start listening today.
Episodes
Wednesday Aug 27, 2025
Wednesday Aug 27, 2025
In this raw and refreshingly honest episode of The Penis Project podcast, Melissa chats with Mitch—a 21-year-old who opens up about his journey with primary premature ejaculation (PE). From rural farm life and open family chats to medication mishaps and sexual self-esteem struggles, Mitch shares his experience with warmth and humour.
Mitch talks about:
- Growing up with PE and its emotional toll
- Navigating sexual intimacy and relationships as a young man
- His experience with online men’s health services like Pilot
- The turning point that led him to seek help at Restorative Health Clinic
- Finding the right treatment—and relief—through personalised care
This episode is a must-listen for any man who's felt alone with PE, and for partners or parents who want to better understand the experience from a younger male’s perspective.
In This Episode, We Cover:
- What it’s like living with lifelong (primary) premature ejaculation
- How a father’s prostate cancer treatment led to a cheeky encounter with penile injections—and eventually helped Mitch seek help
- The cost, pros and cons of online health platforms like Pilot
- Why in-person or telehealth consults with a practitioner can make all the difference
- The emotional impact of PE: shame, self-doubt, and how it affects confidence in and out of the bedroom
- The power of humour and honesty in breaking sexual health stigma
Key Takeaways:
- PE can affect men of all ages—including young blokes—and it’s more common than you think.
- Medication isn’t one-size-fits-all. Finding the right dose and drug with a skilled clinician can be life-changing.
- Open conversations with family, partners, and mates can reduce shame and build resilience.
- Telehealth can be a more accessible, cost-effective way to get specialist support—especially in rural areas.
- Tackling PE early builds long-term sexual confidence and can improve relationships.
Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett:
Premature ejaculation can feel devastating for men, but it’s both common and treatable. We see men every day at Restorative Health Clinic who’ve been told to “just relax” or “it’ll go away with age,” but that doesn’t always happen. Treatment is individual and may include:
- Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs)
- Behavioural therapy
- Mindfulness and arousal control strategies
- Support for partners to reduce pressure and enhance intimacy
Every man deserves to enjoy sex without anxiety—and we’re here to help you do just that.
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au
Listen & Subscribe
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Connect With Us
We love hearing from real people navigating penile health. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.
Email: admin@melissahadleybarrett.com
Websites:
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
https://melissahadleybarrett.com
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Wednesday Aug 13, 2025
Wednesday Aug 13, 2025
In this episode, Melissa chats with David, who was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2023 and underwent a prostatectomy. David candidly shares his journey—how a routine PSA test led to a life-saving diagnosis, what recovery was really like, and how he’s taken a scientific, data-driven approach to his penile rehabilitation.
With warmth, wit and wisdom, David opens up about his experience with erectile dysfunction (ED), continence concerns, vacuum pump rehab, and using the FirmTech ring to monitor nocturnal erections—describing it as a “FitBit for your dick.” He also talks about the importance of talking openly about men's health and encouraging others, including his sons and mates, to get checked early.
In This Episode, We Cover:
- Why tracking PSA trends—not just the number—can save lives
- David’s experience with no symptoms and the surprise diagnosis
- The emotional toll and stigma around ED and incontinence post-surgery
- Why using a penile pump isn’t weird—it’s essential rehab
- Real-world side effects of tablets vs low-dose daily Tadalafil
- Monitoring erections with FirmTech and what the data can reveal
- The surprising link between erectile function, heart health, and alcohol
- The power of talking: How David's openness has led others to get tested
- Tips for men navigating life post-prostatectomy
- Why your penis might be the first clue your heart’s in trouble
Key Takeaways:
- Prostate cancer is often silent—many men have no symptoms at all.
- Early detection matters. David’s long-term PSA monitoring saved his life.
- Erectile rehab works best when started early. Pumps, Tadalafil, and data help.
- Talking saves lives. One conversation might be what pushes someone to get checked.
- Nocturnal erections are a sign of good health—and you can measure them.
- FirmTech isn’t just about sex—it's a window into your cardiovascular system.
Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett:
“As a sexologist and nurse practitioner, I see too many men suffer in silence after prostate cancer. David’s story shows that recovery is possible—with data, determination and a bit of humour. Erectile function is not just about sex—it’s a vital sign of your overall health. So yes, monitoring your function might just save your life.”
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Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our experienced sexual health team at Restorative Health Clinic
Websites:
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
https://melissahadleybarrett.com
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TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
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Linkedin:
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TEDX
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA
Wednesday Jul 30, 2025
Wednesday Jul 30, 2025
In this milestone 200th episode, the tables are turned as Dr Amy Pearlman interviews The Penis Project's own Melissa Hadley Barrett. From wet hair and time zone mix-ups to powerful patient stories and favourite sex toys, this episode is a heartwarming, hilarious, and deeply honest look into what Melissa has learned after 200 interviews about penises, pleasure, relationships, and recovery.
Amy has been a popular guest on The Penis Project and a friend and colleague to Melissa over the past few years and for something different the tables have turned, and Amy is interviewing Melissa to see what she has learnt being a part of The Penis Project community for 200 episodes and just under 5 years of posting. On the 14th of September the Penis Project will have been live for 5 years. This may not seem like a long time for most people but for Melissa it has been huge. Keeping the interviews coming and arranging editing and show notes etc. whilst running a busy growing practice has been hard but worth it, and she has learnt way more from her patients and interviewees than she thought possible.
Together, Melissa and Amy explore:
- How a podcast that began during COVID lockdowns with Melissa and Dr Jo Milios (Physiotherapist) and then without realising became a global resource for men’s health
- Why it’s time to stop joking about penises and start listening
- The emotional side of male sexuality and how assumptions miss the mark
- What men really want after prostate cancer (hint: it isn’t just erections)
- How patients have reshaped Melissa’s clinical approach over time
- Products that have changed lives—and a few that scared her husband
- New conversations about sounding, Tantra, and intimacy beyond intercourse
- What Melissa hopes to do with the next 200 episodes—and who she dreams she will interview next and her dream to be interviewed by….
In This Episode, We Cover:
- How the podcast began as a way to help patients and became so much more
- Learning from patients about loss, masculinity, and connection
- Rethinking the urgency of "getting it up" and embracing broader definitions of intimacy
- The importance of not making assumptions as clinicians
- Sex toys and tools Melissa now recommends—and the ones she avoids
- What a Tantra workshop has taught her about relationships
- Sounding: safety, stigma, and why we need to talk about it
- The power of podcasts to create change and community connection
Key Takeaways:
- Empathy, humour and curiosity matter more than bravado
- Real stories help others feel seen, supported, and less alone
- Sexual health is about connection, not just erections
- There is no one-size-fits-all solution, but there is always a way forward
Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett: "My goal is to open up the conversation. Whether it’s about erectile dysfunction, sex after cancer, or pleasure in new ways. Men and their partners deserve honest support and practical options. This podcast has become my passion project, and it’s changed how I practice. Most of all I want to thank the people who have let us interview them for sharing stories and teaching me so much I could never have learnt from a book or another health professional. I hope my patients and listeners realise how important they are to me, my growth as a human and as a health professional."
Useful Mentions:
- FirmTech erection ring ("Fitbit for your dick")https://rshealth.com.au/shop/p/firmtech-techring , Manta by The Fun Factory https://rshealth.com.au/shop/p/fun-factory-manta-deep-sea-blue
- VaxAid pump – TGA approved hydro pump for ED
- Tantra retreats by Sanctuary of Ananda
- Beaming Beaver organic lubricant
- My Ilo Australian-designed sex toys
- Steve "The Poet Who Didn't Know It" and his book Words Woke Me
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au
Listen & Subscribe
- If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.
Connect With Us
We love hearing from real people navigating penile health. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.
Email: admin@melissahadleybarrett.com
Websites:
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
https://melissahadleybarrett.com
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
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Facebook:
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https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
TEDX
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
Thursday Jul 17, 2025
In this episode, Melissa is joined by Dr. Eric Chung, to dive deep into a topic that many men feel too embarrassed to ask about: tight/painful/unretractable foreskin- phimosis. Whether you've never been able to retract your foreskin or it's become tight and uncomfortable later in life, you're not alone—and you're not without options. This issue affects 2-6% of men worldwide.
This episode explores the two main types of phimosis, how to recognise it, what causes it, and what treatments are available beyond circumcision, including the innovative Novoglan device. They also bust myths around hygiene, sensitivity, and when tight foreskin becomes a medical emergency.
This is a must-listen for anyone experiencing foreskin issues, for clinicians wanting better tools for patient care, and for partners who want to understand more about this issue.
In This Episode, We Cover:
- What phimosis is—and why it only affects uncircumcised men
- The difference between congenital phimosis and BXO (balanitis xerotica obliterans)
- Common causes: scarring, trauma, infection, and stretching injuries
- What is Novoglan and how does it work to gently treat phimosis?
- Why circumcision isn’t the only answer?
- Risks of ignoring phimosis—urinary issues, infections, and paraphimosis
- How tight foreskin can cause sexual dysfunction and distress
- The role of steroids and soap-free hygiene in treatment
- Empowering men to make informed choices about their bodies
Key Takeaways:
- You’re not alone. Phimosis is common but often hidden behind shame.
- Not all tight foreskins need to be cut. Devices like Novoglan offer non-surgical options.
- BXO is a progressive condition. Early management can preserve both function and comfort.
- Paraphimosis is a medical emergency. Know the signs and don’t delay seeking help.
- Sexual function is more than physical. The psychological impacts of phimosis are real and valid.
- Gentle hygiene is key. Avoid soaps—use warm water and a cotton cloth to keep things clean and healthy.
Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett:
“As a nurse practitioner and sexologist, I see firsthand how foreskin issues like phimosis affect not just a man’s body, but his confidence, relationships, and sexual wellbeing. The good news is—we can help. There’s more to treatment than just circumcision, and men deserve options, dignity, and evidence-based care. That’s what we’re all about at Restorative Health Clinic.”
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au
- The Penis Project podcast Episode 107- Penis Skin Conditions with Dermatologist Dr Ahmed
- Check out our Youtube for more information on phimosis
Listen & Subscribe
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Listener Offer:
Available in Australia and worldwide – shop vis www.rshealth.com
Use code TPP10 for 10% off
Global Access:
- Australia: Ships via Restorative Health Clinic
Connect With Us
We love hearing from real people navigating penile health. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.
Email: admin@melissahadleybarrett.com
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TEDX
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA
Wednesday Jul 02, 2025
Wednesday Jul 02, 2025
In this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett chats with Mish Middelmann — a prostate cancer survivor, men’s leadership coach, and founder of The Recovering Man. Mish is also the author of a book about sex beyond erections, called Beyond Erections - reclaiming sexual pleasure and intimacy with erectile differences.
Diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2019, Mish shares his raw and insightful journey of treatment, recovery, and rebuilding life as a man post-cancer. From Johannesburg to Canada, his story spans continents and emotions — and ultimately, his experience led him to create a space for other men navigating the often-silent challenges of prostate cancer recovery.
Mish now supports men and their partners through personalised coaching, offering emotional guidance, tools for self-reinvention, and a path toward rediscovering identity and intimacy. He also speaks about the recent release of his book — including why the original title sparked controversy and was later renamed.
In This Episode, We Cover:
- Mish’s prostate cancer diagnosis and the decisions he faced
- The physical and psychological recovery process after treatment
- How prostate cancer affects male identity, sexuality, and relationships
- The importance of support networks for both men and their partners
- His work as a men’s health coach and the creation of The Recovering Man
- The evolving conversation around masculinity, vulnerability, and healing
- Insights from his newly released book on finding sexual pleasure without relying on hard erections.
Key Takeaways:
Life after prostate cancer is about more than just surviving — it’s about reclaiming who you are. Mish encourages men to explore healing not only of the body but also of self-image, connection, and purpose.
Resources & Links:
- Book a confidential consult, in clinic or on telehealth, with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au
- Visit The Recovering Man: https://www.recoveringman.net/ – Coaching, articles, and resources for men navigating life after prostate cancer.
- Book by Mish Middelmann: Beyond Erections available as paperback or eBook. Details at www.beyonderections.com/book.
- Learn more about men’s sexual health services: www.rshealth.com.au
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TEDX
Wednesday Jun 18, 2025
Wednesday Jun 18, 2025
In this special episode, Melissa connects with longtime friend and renowned psychosomatic therapist Frida, founder of Body Nature Therapies in Byron Bay. Frida shares her personal and professional journey—from a background in fine arts to pioneering her Body Mapping Method, a therapeutic process that bridges the body-mind connection.
Frida explains what psychosomatic therapy really is (hint: it’s simpler than you think!), and how disconnection between body and mind often lies at the root of illness, fatigue, and sexual dysfunction. With wisdom grounded in yoga, Ayurveda, remedial bodywork, and Eastern and Western healing philosophies, she shares how aligning your physical form can profoundly impact your mental and emotional wellbeing.
From postural alignment to pelvic floor balance and the power of the breath, this conversation uncovers the life-changing benefits of reconnecting to your body—especially for men dealing with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or post-cancer recovery.
In This Episode, We Cover:
- What is psychosomatic therapy—and how can it help?
- Frida’s journey from artist to bodyworker to therapist
- The Body Mapping Method: what it is, how it works, and why it’s so powerful
- How posture and muscle tone affect sexual function, stress, and overall health
- Real-life client transformations through simple body realignment and breathwork
- Why balance (front/back, top/bottom) in the body is essential—especially for men
- The link between gym routines, hypertonic pelvic floors, and erectile dysfunction
- Why breath is the unsung hero of healing and optimal sexual health
Key Takeaways:
- Your body tells a story. Posture and breath reflect your stress, habits, and mindset.
- Balance matters. Overtraining visible muscles while neglecting the rest (like glutes and pelvic floor) can contribute to erectile dysfunction and pain.
- Small tweaks, big impact. Conscious breathing, posture correction, and gentle movement can lead to major improvements in wellbeing and sexual health.
- The body remembers. Emotional trauma can live in our tissues; releasing it through bodywork can be incredibly healing.
- Self-agency is powerful. When you understand your body, you reclaim the power to heal.
Expert Insights:
“You are not a sum of disconnected parts—you are one beautiful, functional whole.”
— Melissa Hadley Barrett
“The breath connects everything. Your nervous system depends on the frequency and depth of the breath.”
— Frida
About Frida & Body Nature Therapies:
Frida is a psychosomatic therapist, yoga teacher, remedial massage practitioner, and artist. She founded Body Nature Therapies in 2004 and developed the unique Body Mapping Method, a process that uses illustrated posture analysis to help people visually reconnect with their bodies.
With decades of experience and a deep passion for self-empowerment and natural healing, Frida helps clients access lasting change—physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Learn more: Instagram - @body_nature_therapies
Available for online consultations https://bodynature.org/
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au
Listen & Subscribe
- If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.
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TEDX
Wednesday Jun 04, 2025
Wednesday Jun 04, 2025
In this refreshingly honest episode, Melissa chats with the inspiring and trailblazing Dr. Amy Pearlman—a US-based female urologist, twin, and co-founder of the Prime Institute in Florida. Known for her progressive and patient-first approach, Amy opens up about her journey into men’s health, the procedures she performs (including penile girth enhancement), and the power of confidence in sexual wellbeing.
This episode dives deep into:
- Why Amy chose a career in urology
- How penile enhancement treatments like hyaluronic acid fillers are helping men regain confidence
- The rise of penile retraction as a commonly ignored concern—and what can be done about it
- Using tools like Restorex and vacuum erection devices for rehabilitation and enhancement
- Why Botox for the penis (Bocox) might be the next frontier in treating ED and penile retraction
- The role of filler sleeves in preserving shape post-injection
- Her concierge model of care and how it allows for more personalised, holistic men’s health treatment.
Dr. Pearlman also busts myths and shares real-world insight from her clinical experience. Melissa shares a fascinating case of six men from Papua New Guinea searching for penis enlargement in Perth!
Key Topics Covered:
- Penile girth enhancement with hyaluronic acid filler
- Filler safety, reversibility, and realistic expectations
- Why sexual confidence matters in treating premature ejaculation
- Treating penile retraction and post-surgical shrinkage
- Erectile dysfunction therapies: PDE5 inhibitors, daily tadalafil vs. on-demand Spontan spray
- How Dr. Pearlman learned procedures after formal training—and why that matters
- The difference between snake oil and real innovation in men’s health
- Cosmetic urology vs. functional outcomes: bridging the gap
About Dr. Amy Pearlman:
Amy is a board-certified urologist, medical educator, and co-founder of the Prime Institute. Her career spans academic medicine, transgender surgery, male sexual health, hormone therapy, and now cosmetic urology with a focus on confidence, body image, and function. Known for her progressive mindset, Amy trains other professionals and speaks globally on men’s health and innovation in urological care.
- Prime Institute: www.theprimeinstitute.com
- Follow Amy on Instagram: @amypearlmanmd
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au
Listen & Subscribe
- If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.
Connect With Us
We love hearing from real people navigating penile health—just like Amy If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.
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TEDX
Wednesday May 21, 2025
Wednesday May 21, 2025
In this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa welcomes Tim, the brand manager of VaxAid, to introduce a revolutionary vacuum erection device now launching in Australia. If you've heard Melissa talk about Bathmate, you’ll want to hear about its medical-grade cousin—VaxAid—which combines water-based technology with medically approved features, making it one of the safest and most effective penis pumps on the market. It is also the only pump that can be used in water and air.
Tim and Melissa dive into everything you need to know: how it works, why hydro pumps are different to air pumps, the benefits of VaxAid's unique erection ring system, and what makes it TGA, FDA, and ISO certified. They also explore how this device fits into broader penile rehabilitation strategies post-cancer treatment, after surgery, or for general sexual health optimisation.
Key Takeaways:
- What is VaxAid, and how is it different from traditional air pumps or the original Bathmate?
- Why hydraulic pressure is safer and more effective than air-based systems
- The importance of nocturnal erections and penile exercise in preventing long-term ED
- How VaxAid’s comfort ring system supports blood flow while allowing for sexual intercourse
- Insights into post-prostatectomy rehabilitation and vacuum therapy best practices
- What makes VaxAid TGA-registered, FDA-compliant, and ISO GMP-certified
- How VaxAid is supporting global clinical trials in collaboration with FirmTech
- Tips for pump maintenance, correct sizing, and why quality matters in men’s health devices
Featured Product: VaxAid Hydro Pump
- TGA-Registered in Australia
- FDA-Registered (U.S.)
- ISO-Certified Good Manufacturing Practice
- Clinically approved erection rings (sizes in 4mm increments)
- Designed for both rehabilitation and sexual activity
- Works in water (bath/shower) or air (bedroom use)
- Available in multiple sizes for optimal fit and pressure control
Top Tips when using:
- Keep pubic hair trimmed for optimal seal
- Clean valve parts regularly to prevent water buildup
- Use the handball pump for more comfortable use, especially post-surgery
- Choose the right size—think Goldilocks: not too big, not too small, just right!
Expert Insight from Melissa Hadley Barrett:
- Using a penile pump daily can improve blood flow and preserve erectile function
- Men often lose nocturnal erections during cancer recovery—this pump helps restore them
- Cheaper pumps can cause damage due to inconsistent pressure—medical-grade pumps prevent that
Listener Offer:
Get 10% off your VaxAid with the code RHC20 – available for Australian and international orders
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au
Listen & Subscribe
- If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.
Connect With Us
We love hearing from real people navigating penile health. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.
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TEDX
Wednesday May 07, 2025
Wednesday May 07, 2025
In this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa chats with Richard, an entrepreneur and Peyronie’s disease patient who turned personal frustration into innovation. After struggling with pain and slippage while using the Restorex traction device for Peyronie’s treatment, Richard took matters into his own hands—literally—and developed a more comfortable alternative: the Comfort Grip.
Richard shares his journey from diagnosis to design, including his extensive research, collaboration with other Peyronie’s specialists, and the trial-and-error process of product development. His invention aims to improve comfort, reduce prep time, and enhance treatment outcomes for men using penile traction therapy.
The Comfort Grip is designed to replace the standard Restorex clamp with a soft, adjustable, non-painful grip, offering ease of use and compatibility with both circumcised and uncircumcised users. This episode is a must-listen for men with Peyronie’s disease and anyone supporting someone on their penile rehabilitation journey.
Key Takeaways:
- Richard’s Peyronie’s diagnosis and personal experience with traction therapy
- Why the Restorex device works well—but some people need an added fitting to enable to be more comfortable and effective
- The invention of the Comfort Grip: a gentle, adjustable, and user-friendly alternative end fitting for Restorex
- Product testing, manufacturing, and future commercial availability
- Plans to sell via Amazon, eBay, and through Melissa Hadley Barrett’s website
- Insights into the penis product invention world, marketing humour included!
Not Just Another Gadget:
Unlike traditional clamps that often cause pain, the Comfort Grip offers:
- Infinite adjustment via a turnable bezel
- Silicone padding for even pressure distribution
- Quick and painless application—no bandages or taping required
- Compatibility with foreskin (no need to retract)
Where to Get the Comfort Grip:
The Comfort Grip will be available for purchase in May via:
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au
Listen & Subscribe
- If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.
Connect With Us
We love hearing from real people navigating penile health—just like Richard. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.
Email: admin@melissahadleybarrett.com
Website: www.rshealth.com.au
Websites:
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
https://melissahadleybarrett.com
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
TEDX
Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
In this candid and heartfelt episode, Melissa chats with Richard and Pauline, a 75-year-old couple who generously share their personal experience with prostate cancer—from diagnosis to recovery. They open up about the emotional and physical aspects of his journey, including the moment a routine PSA test led to further investigation and, eventually, robotic prostate surgery.
This conversation shines a light on topics that are often left unspoken: erectile dysfunction after surgery, managing incontinence, and maintaining penis health in the face of cancer treatment. Richard discusses the treatments he tried, including injections, penis pumps, oral medications, and a new nasal spray for ED—and what worked best for him.
They also talk about the role of partners during recovery. Richard speaks warmly about the support he received from his wife Pauline, and how her own journey with vaginal discomfort was improved with expert help from the vagina whisperer Kate.
Alongside medical insights, this episode explores the financial realities of treatment, highlights the importance of pre-surgical preparation (including pelvic floor exercises), and makes a compelling case for early PSA screening—particularly for men over 40 or those with a family history of prostate cancer.
Key Takeaways:
- Why PSA testing and early detection matter
- New nasal spray for Erectile Dysfunction- Spontan
- How pelvic floor physiotherapy helps with recovery and incontinence
- Treatment options for erectile dysfunction post-surgery
- The benefits of maintaining penis health after prostate cancer
- The impact of a supportive partner and professional team
- Federal and State government support available for incontinence products
Resources & Links:
- Book a telehealth consult with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic
- https://www.pelvichug.com/ Louise Hug
- For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au
- Continence Aids Payment Scheme (CAPS)- federal Australian government https://www.health.gov.au/our-work/continence-aids-payment-scheme-caps
Listen & Subscribe
- If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! Your feedback helps us continue bringing important conversations to light. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.
Connect With Us
We love hearing from real people navigating penile health—just like Richard. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch.
Email: admin@melissahadleybarrett.com
Website: www.rshealth.com.au
Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/
https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett
Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/
TEDX
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA