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With over 219,000 streams and nearly 200 episodes, The Penis Project Podcast—hosted by Australian Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett —offers groundbreaking conversations about men’s sexual health. Launched in 2020 by Melissa and physiotherapist Jo Milios, the podcast combines expert knowledge, scientific insights, and interviews with her patients and their partners to address sensitive topics men often struggle to discuss, including erectile dysfunction, prostate and bladder cancer recovery, Peyronie’s disease, premature ejaculation and intimacy in relationships. Melissa, who refers to herself as the ”Unexpected Sexologist,” brings decades of clinical experience and compassion to every episode, highlighting that sexual wellbeing involves both physical and emotional health. Join this global community in breaking down stigma, finding support, and accessing practical solutions to common yet overlooked men’s health issues. Available on all major podcast platforms, with new episodes every fortnight—start listening today.
With over 219,000 streams and nearly 200 episodes, The Penis Project Podcast—hosted by Australian Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett —offers groundbreaking conversations about men’s sexual health. Launched in 2020 by Melissa and physiotherapist Jo Milios, the podcast combines expert knowledge, scientific insights, and interviews with her patients and their partners to address sensitive topics men often struggle to discuss, including erectile dysfunction, prostate and bladder cancer recovery, Peyronie’s disease, premature ejaculation and intimacy in relationships. Melissa, who refers to herself as the ”Unexpected Sexologist,” brings decades of clinical experience and compassion to every episode, highlighting that sexual wellbeing involves both physical and emotional health. Join this global community in breaking down stigma, finding support, and accessing practical solutions to common yet overlooked men’s health issues. Available on all major podcast platforms, with new episodes every fortnight—start listening today.
Episodes

Wednesday Nov 15, 2023
154: The Solo Sidekick - ‘The Eureka’ prostate patient
Wednesday Nov 15, 2023
Wednesday Nov 15, 2023
In this episode, we revisit Anthony the Eureka patient from episode 112 and 113. Anthony was diagnosed with prostate cancer in August 2022 at age 53. He was determined to get through it with the best possible outcome. He decided to document his journey in film and post on YouTube, in the hope of helping other men and their partners in the same situation.
Jo Milios interviewed Anthony in December 2022 to hear all about his early days recovering and today we will see how he is going another year down the track. He is now cancer free, with almost no side effects.
He has also written a song about prostate cancer which we play at the intro and outro of this episode.
In my experience many men tell me tell that their life has been improved by their prostate cancer journey from various aspects, improved health, rekindling of past hobbies and interests and a deepening of relationships. Anthony is one of these guys who has turned this experience into a positive. I hope you enjoy this episode. If you would like to hear more music from Anthony and see his YouTube diary, please see links below.
Prostate Cancer video series
Solo Sidekick on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/@SoloSidekick/playlists
Solo Sidekick on Spotify
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Music:
Anthony Robertson
Prostate Cancer Song
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PvfAdju1rxY&ab_channel=AnthonyRobertson

Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
153: The Mane Truth – Hair Loss Q&A with Dr. Mario Terri
Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
On the latest episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Kendall Gow joins me as we chat with Dr. Mario Terri to unravel the mysteries of baldness. Hair loss and balding are common topics of discussion that come up with the men we see at the clinic, so we wanted to get some answers from a specialist in the field of hair loss treatments.
Dr. Mario Terri, is a hair transplant surgeon and cosmetic physician, who also serves as the Senior Medical Director for Ashley and Martin Australia in Perth. We discuss the factors contributing to hair loss, from genetics to hormones, and debunk some common myths along the way.
Subscribe to The Penis Project Podcast and stay tuned for more informative conversations.
The topics discussed in today’s podcast include:
Hair loss statistics
Genetic causes
Baldness myths debunked
Lifestyle factors and risks
Medications and hair loss
Oral treatments and decreased PSA scores
Cooling caps and chemotherapy
Laser therapy
Here are some key points from our engaging conversation:
- The prevalence of hair loss varies between men and women. While it's commonly believed that 60% of men and 40% of women will experience hair loss in their lifetime, Dr. Terri shares updated statistics, revealing that up to 70% of men and around 10% of women may experience hair loss. After menopause, this percentage can increase to 30% in women.
- Hair loss in men is typically attributed to genetic male pattern baldness, accounting for 99% of cases. In women, it can result from various factors, including genetics, medical conditions, or lifestyle choices.
- Dr. Terri provides insights into the genetic aspects of hair loss, dispelling the myth that baldness is solely inherited from one side of the family. Polygenetics plays a significant role, and the risk of hair loss is higher if it runs in your immediate family.
- We discuss the age groups seeking treatment for hair loss, with a focus on the age range of 18 to 40, where individuals are often at a stage in life where they are concerned about their appearance and how it might impact their personal and professional lives.
- We address the misconception that baldness is related to high testosterone levels. Dr. Terri clarifies that the testosterone levels in bald and non-bald men are not significantly different, debunking this common myth.
- During consultations, Dr. Terri explains that they take a comprehensive approach, examining the patient's history, performing a physical examination, and asking relevant questions to determine the cause of hair loss, which can be genetic or attributed to other factors such as dermatitis or medical conditions.
Join us for an enlightening discussion that sheds light on the causes of hair loss and dispels myths surrounding this common concern. Whether you're experiencing hair loss or want to learn more about it, this episode offers valuable insights. Subscribe to The Penis Project Podcast and stay tuned for more informative conversations.
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Websites:
https://ashleyandmartin.com.au/
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Online Men's Health Programs
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
https://www.prostaterehabilitation.com/
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
Facebook:
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Wednesday Nov 01, 2023
152: Wonky Willies, bent penis….what angle is your dangle?
Wednesday Nov 01, 2023
Wednesday Nov 01, 2023
Peyronies Disease Explained
Did you know that prostate cancer survivors have a marked increased risk of developing Peyronies disease?
The prevalence of diagnosed PD has been estimated to be 0.5% in adult males. PD is thought to happen in about 6 out of 100 men between the ages of 40 and 70. It’s rare in young men but has been seen in men in their 30's. The incidence of PD increases after prostate cancer treatment; however, studies vary in statistics. It is important to note that penile rehabilitation programs can reduce the risk, post prostate cancer treatment.
For more information about Peyronies please read https://rshealth.com.au/peyronies-disease/
We have a new program coming soon to address this issue, a roadmap to penile perfection. Please register your interest at admin@melissahadleybarrett.com
This common issue is not talked about often and there are treatments available. Causation is often difficult to ascertain, however treatment is the same regardless of the reason it has occurred.
Today we will speak to two men who have faced this hurdle and come out the other side. I am particularly excited about this episode as we haven’t previously discussed the use of traction in this treatment.
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
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Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
151: Words Woke Me - Steve’s Journey To Recovery Through Poetry
Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
In this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, I chat with Steve Jones, a name that might ring a bell for our dedicated listeners. Steve's life took a unique turn when he lost his prostate, but in turn discovered a remarkable talent for expressing his story through poetry.
His poetry delves into various aspects of his recovery, from overcoming loneliness and exploring intimacy to empowerment and appreciating life.
Steve has recently published a collection of his poetry in a book called "Words Woke Me," a beautiful glimpse into his personal journey.
Listen in as Steve shares a few of his poems and discusses his commitment to supporting men to feel less isolated when faced with the challenges of prostate cancer.
- To purchase Steve’s book: Click Here
- Steve’s Facebook Page: Click Here
Summary (Outline Only)
The topics discussed in today’s podcast include:
- A change in perspective
- Mental Health
- Becoming a support for others
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
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Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
150: Making Every Day Count: Malcolm’s Road to Recovery
Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
In this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, I have a chat with Malcolm, a 60 year old scientist who was diagnosed with prostate cancer two years ago. Malcolm candidly shares his post prostatectomy experience, elevated Gleason scores and the need for ongoing radiation therapy post-surgery.
He also reflects on his lifelong role as being the one standing strong when everyone else falls down, and the significant adjustment it was to allow himself the rest and care he truly needed.
While his journey hasn’t been all sunshine and sometimes plunged him into low moments, he reflects on the necessity of surrendering the constant need for total control. Instead, he learned to trust his medical team and take action where he could.
Malcolm shared some wisdom that resonated with me during our chat. He said something that I think many can take to heart if faced with the challenges of cancer and fears for the future: "Don't let cancer make your decisions for you".
- Summary (Outline Only)
The topics discussed in today's podcast include:
- Exercise as medicine
- Starting antidepressants
- Preparing for radiation
- A shift in mindset
- Turning off the scientist brain
- Drug trials and hormone treatment
- The impact on family and friends
- The importance of a good support network
- Revaluating life after a cancer diagnosis
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
Facebook:
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Linkedin:
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Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
In the latest episode of The Penis Project Podcast, I chat with Trevor, who bravely shares his personal journey battling prostate cancer. Trevor has a special way of explaining his journey. He sees it like a game of "whack-a-mole," where life keeps popping up and surprising him with challenges.
Trevor begins by recounting his diagnosis, which came about during his weight loss journey through bariatric surgery.
What makes Trevor's story unique is that he was advised against prostate removal and pursued an alternative treatment path instead. We'll get into the nitty-gritty of those treatments and dive into how he's been feeling emotionally and physically. It'll give you a real sense of the strength and determination he's shown while dealing with his diagnosis.
- Summary (Outline Only)
The topics discussed in today's podcast include:
- Diagnosis post bariatric surgery
- Dealing with advanced cancer that spread
- Radiation
- Loss of libido & hot flushes
- GAP4 Health Programs and Exercise
- Mental Health
- Weight gain after a significant weight loss journey
- Positive Side Effects
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
Facebook:
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https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
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https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
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Linkedin:
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Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
148: Prostate Cancer - The Silver Lining/Fit, Fabulous Before 50
Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
On this episode of The Penis Project I chat with Brook, who was diagnosed with prostate cancer at the young age of 47. Having experienced zero symptoms, Brook’s decision to get tested was prompted by his brother's own diagnosis just a year prior, at the age of 44.
Following his surgery, Brook experienced a remarkable recovery (I’m talking the return of erections while his catheter was still inserted!).
However, he also emphasizes the vital lesson he gained about the importance of allowing your body to recuperate and embracing a slower pace for healing. Brook's journey is a testament to the importance of early detection and proactive health choices.
- Summary (Outline Only)
The topics discussed in today's podcast include:
- The challenges with getting tested
- Brook’s Pre-Op Game Plan
- Lifestyle Changes
- Post-surgery experiences
- The fast recovery and return of erections
- Catheter Pain
- Leakage and Incontinence
- Dealing with Climacturia
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
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Linkedin:
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Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
147. Reece’s Accident at Work, at 17
Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
Injury and Penile Health
What would you do if, at 17, you had an accident that affected your sexual function?
Today, Reece will answer that question and share with us his story.
At 17 years old, Reece had a work accident that changed his life and sexual function forever. That was 12 years ago, and Reece is now 29.
Listen as he shares what happened that time at work, to his recovery that required him to use a catheter and a stoma for almost 6 months, to navigating the dating scene now that he is 29, his FIFO work, and how that accident made him the person who he is today.
- Summary (Outline only)
The topics discussed in today’s podcast include:
- Forklift accident
- Reece’s hospital journey: catheter use, stoma
- Fertility discussion
- Remedies he uses for penile health
- Spinal injury and penile health
- Recovery
- What dating looks like for a 29 year-old guy
- And more
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085146627814
Instagram:
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https://www.instagram.com/restorativehealth.clinic/
TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett
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Linkedin:
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Wednesday Aug 16, 2023
146. Your Partner’s Solution to Painful Sex
Wednesday Aug 16, 2023
Wednesday Aug 16, 2023
Hear it from Sarah and her THERMIVa experience
If your partner is experiencing painful sex even while using a lubricant, THERMIva might be the answer.
Our guest today, Sarah, was diagnosed with breast cancer at age 36. Part of her treatment required her to be put into menopause early… that means hot flushes that come on hard and fast, loss of hair, and being dry down there.
So, four months into her treatment, Sarah started to notice pain while having sex. So painful that not even a long shower can relieve it.
A chance encounter with Kendall introduced her to THERMIVA. With this treatment, Sarah says that from 8/10 pain during sex, it’s now ZERO.
This treatment is not just for breast cancer survivors it is for all women with this issue. A non-hormonal option to treat vaginal atrophy, dryness and discomfort.
Summary (Outline only)
Some of the topics that were discussed in the episode are:
- Getting diagnosed with cancer at 36
- Why was Sarah put into menopause as part of her treatment
- Painful sex during treatment and why
- THERMIVa treatment; the procedure from start to finish
- What a person would feel while undergoing THERMIVa
- Effects of THERMIVa on Sarah’s sex life
Resources
Book you or your partner’s THERMIVa session today. Contact admin@rshealth.com.au
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Websites:
https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men’s health only
https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
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Linkedin:
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Tuesday Aug 08, 2023
145. Ryan’s story with HIV; The good, the beautiful, the lemonade
Tuesday Aug 08, 2023
Tuesday Aug 08, 2023
How far has science progressed with treating HIV? Quite far and Ryan will share all the details.
Today’s episode will give you a peak into Ryan’s life - from his HIV diagnosis, to breaking the news to his family, to recovering from work discrimination, and to conquering life. Cliché as it may sound but Ryan did make lemonades from lemons.
As you listen to this episode, we hope it gives you a glimpse of what HIV is now, how it’s being treated, the daily experiences of HIV patients and why there shouldn’t be fear and discrimination but instead love and acceptance.
Summary Outline
Today’s episode discusses about:
- Ryan’s HIV diagnosis
- Sharing HIV news to family and opening about being gay
- What you can do when diagnosed with HIV
- Discrimination in the workplace for people with HIV
- Bouncing back up from this
- Foot fetishes
- Current treatment for patients now
- How it’s like with dating and life
- Treatment options available for heterosexual men with or without HIV
- Who are bug chasers
- Condom use for protection
- And a lot more
Here is Ryan's message for a new HIV diagnosee:
BREATHE!!! This is not the end of your life but the beginning. Think on the bright side it’s all “POSITIVE” from here on!!!!
- Touch base with your local HIV organisation. They will have counselling services and/or a Peer Navigation programme or be able to point you to one. In Perth there is POWA(Positive Organisation WA).
- Find an HIV+ Peer and get peer support or even a group of peers. In perth we have a monthly brunch for People with HIV.
- Even if you don’t think you need counselling engage with one, its surprising how even when you think you have things sorted how the discrimination affects you.
- Engage with your specialist/Dr around your treatment options you don’t have accept the first one they suggest. It’s your own body you decide what goes in it and there are multiple HIV treatment regimens available now with different side effects what is best for me is not necessarily the best for you.
Enjoy listening!
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https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders
http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/
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Music
David Mercy
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1HbvnltKu4XbWTmk0kpVB9?si=D1xP5dDVQK-zzNU3rViRWg
Producer
Thomas Evans: The SOTA Process
https://www.instagram.com/thesotaprocess/
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Jf2IYXRlgfsiqNARsY8fi